Dealing
with Difficult Behavior in the Classroom

BEHAVIOR:
Rambling
-- wandering around and off the subject. Using far-fetched examples
or analogies.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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Refocus
attention by restating relevant point.
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Direct
questions to group that is back on the subject
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Ask
how topic relates to current topic being discussed.
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Use
visual aids, begin to write on board, turn on overhead projector.
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Say:
"Would you summarize your main point please?" or "Are
you asking...?"

BEHAVIOR:
Shyness
or Silence
-- lack of participation.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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Change
teaching strategies from group discussion to individual written
exercises or a videotape
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Give
strong positive reinforcement for any contribution.
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Involve
by directly asking him/her a question.
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Make
eye contact.
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Appoint
to be small group leader.
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BEHAVIOR:
Talkativeness
-- knowing everything, manipulation, chronic whining.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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Acknowledge
comments made.
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Give
limited time to express viewpoint or feelings, and then move on.
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Make
eye contact with another participant and move toward that person.
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Give
the person individual attention during breaks.
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Say:
"That's an interesting point. Now let's see what other other
people think."
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BEHAVIOR:
Sharpshooting
--
trying to shoot you down or trip you up.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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BEHAVIOR:
Heckling/Arguing
-- disagreeing with everything you say; making personal attacks.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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Redirect
question to group or supportive individuals.
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Recognize
participant's feelings and move one.
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Acknowledge
positive points.
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Say:
"I appreciate your comments, but I'd like to hear from others,"
or "It looks like we disagree."
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BEHAVIOR:
Grandstanding
--
getting caught up in one's own agenda or thoughts to the detriment
of other learners.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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Say:
"You are entitled to your opinion, belief or feelings, but
now it's time we moved on to the next subject," or "Can
you restate that as a question?" or "We'd like to hear
more about that if there is time after the presentation."
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BEHAVIOR:
Overt Hostility/Resistance
-- angry, belligerent, combative behavior.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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Hostility
can be a mask for fear. Reframe hostility as fear to depersonalize
it.
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Respond
to fear, not hostility.
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Remain
calm and polite. Keep your temper in check.
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Don't
disagree, but build on or around what has been said.
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Move
closer to the hostile person, maintain eye contact.
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Always
allow him or her a way to gracefully retreat from the confrontation.
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Say:
"You seem really angry. Does anyone else feel this way?"
Solicit peer pressure.
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Do
not accept the premise or underlying assumption, if it is false
or prejudicial, e.g., "If by "queer" you mean
homosexual..."
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Allow
individual to solve the problem being addressed. He or she may
not be able to offer solutions and
will
sometimes undermine his or her own position.
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Talk
to him or her privately during a break.
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As
a last resort, privately ask the individual to leave class for
the good of the group.
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BEHAVIOR:
Griping
-- maybe legitimate complaining.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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BEHAVIOR:
Side
Conversations -- may be related to subject or personal.
Distracts group members and you.
POSSIBLE
RESPONSES:
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Don't
embarrass talkers.
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Ask
their opinion on topic being discussed.
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Ask
talkers if they would like to share their ideas.
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Casually
move toward those talking.
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Make
eye contact with them.
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Comment
on the group (but don't look at them "one-at-a-time").
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Standing
near the talkers, ask a nearby participant a question so that
the new discussion is near the talkers.
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As
a last resort, stop and wait.
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